I suppose there are a few ways to look at this topic. For me, though, expectations boil down to what I believe I should be accomplishing given a certain timeframe. That has been key when determining what my goals should be for 2025. No one ever tells me what I need to do, what book has to be next. Everything comes from what I gather from readers, what I have sitting on my shelf, and the time available thanks to the growing needs of my family. So, weighing expectations becomes very important when balancing everything.
Weighing Expectations
What I want to be doing…
Everything. It’s really as simple as that. Someone will ask me if my books are in audio yet, and I feel an undue pressure to want to drop everything and start finding a new narrator. Another person wants a release date set for DSA Season Three, and I want to forget about Greystone, Coventry, and a dozen other things to draft all six books immediately.
Two people can’t dictate the process, though, can they?
What I say and what I think don’t always align when I ponder the above question. I hate to disappoint anyone. If ever there was a way to do it all, I would do it in a heartbeat.
That’s when those expectations come into play.
Coming up with the schedule
The Christmas/New Year’s break is about more than recharging the old batteries. The two/three-week period of silence from me is all about gearing up for what’s next. Usually, I have things lined up pretty well. There are books constantly being written and edited. Something will always be on the horizon, but is there enough to last a year?
This past year showed what happens when things get overwhelming. My schedule was an utter disaster. Every break from school turned into a break from whatever world I was trying to create, whether it be in outlining, scripting, drafting, or editing. I fell behind… BIG TIME.
I didn’t help matters. Greystone needed a revamp, and I was happy to finally do it. But those months really ate into any kind of lead time I thought I had built up.
2025 is about rebalancing. The release schedule provided last week is the template from which everything else grows. Almost everything on that list is already done (and oh, so good).
So where do I go from here?
Giving myself time.
This is a pretty simple goal yet easily overlooked. I stressed out for months on how to maintain my workload. I pulled back on a number of levels, but it never achieved anything on a personal level. That has to change for 2025. Instead of letting projects fester so that I am constantly on edge, I am going whole hog into work. I know where I have to be, and I know what has to be written.
I just need to make it work within the structure of time I’m allowed to play with.
Yes, the youngest kiddo makes it tough. It’s my last few months with her before school takes over fully. I’m going to enjoy that as much as I can.
Do I need more physical activity? Absolutely. That’s something else that needs to be put into the schedule. It has to. I can’t keep going the way I’ve been.
All these things need to be taken into account. Weighing expectations is about more than goal setting. It is about righting the ship called Lou, both physically, mentally, and creatively. Less stress. Less frustration at not working. Mapping out the days in advance, working through them at a steady but not insane clip, and then walking away in the evening for some much-needed exercise, is what is called for this year. And by God, I am going to do it.
There is more than work on the docket this year. There is time for me. Time to read. Time to play. Weighing my own expectations is my way of justifying the lighter workload. It’s also my way of staying alive to see the end of these incredible stories I’ve been building.
I think every book will be better for it.